Depression

Many people notice that their interest in sex decreases as a result of a serious illness or its treatment. People can also lose interest in sex if they are depressed. People are often reluctant to talk about this very intimate area of their lives, but it can help to talk through how you feel with your partner. Explaining that your lack of interest is not a sign of lack of affection or respect for them, may help you both feel more secure.

You can also talk things through with your GP, who may be able to offer help. Your specialist nurse, if you have one, can also discuss this with you. Some treatments and antidepressants can cause sexual problems. Changing to a different medicine may return things to normal.

Our section on sexuality may be helpful.