Changed sex drive
It is also important to acknowledge that your partner’s sexual drive may not be reduced. Sometimes it can even increase, if intimate touch helps to reassure them in times of stress. It may be important to talk through with your partner other ways they can meet their sexual needs, such as masturbation. This can help to reduce any frustration resulting from reduced sexual contact. This may not be what you would ideally want but it can be a useful way for both of you to meet your needs.
Emotional intimacy may increase through greater communication, even when sexual intercourse is not possible.
Books and videos on sexual issues are available from shops and the internet – often they are not on display in shops so you may need to ask directly. Your local library may also have some useful books that you can borrow.